Dear Miss Behavin’: I just moved to a new neighborhood where there are lots of families. My dog Poppy is really sweet with people but isn’t so sure about all of the little kids. They of course want to pet and play with her but she is hesitant. How can I help her warm up to our new little neighbors?
If Poppy has mostly been around adults until now, it’s understandable that she would be unsure of the small stature, loud voices, and quick movements of little kids. As much as the neighborhood kids want to run up and shower her with affection, start small by having them toss or hand Poppy treats instead. If Poppy still seems nervous, keep these interactions short and take cues from her in terms of when to go back inside or continue on your walk.
It can also be fun to get the neighborhood kids in on teaching Poppy new tricks. Load the kids up with some of her favorite treats and show them how to teach her “shake” or “spin.” This is a great way for Poppy and the kids to work together without lots of petting or roughhousing.
Some dogs are more motivated by toys and play than treats, which can also be used to your advantage. Fetch is a great way for kids and dogs to play, and like training, does not involve much, if any, physical contact. Providing a few tennis balls to fetch with also ensures the kids can trade Poppy for the toy in her mouth, instead of reaching straight for it.
By coming up with safe and fun activities that both Poppy and the kids will enjoy, you can expect Poppy will greet your new little neighbors with a smile and a wag in no time.